NON VIOLENCE IS NOT NO VIOLENCE!

क्षमा शोभती उस भुजंग को जिसके पास गरल हो
उसको क्या जो दंतहीन, विषरहित , विनीत, सरल हो!
सहनशीलता, क्षमा, दया को तभी पूजता जग है,
बल के दर्प चमकता उसके पीछे जब जगमग है!

These are a couple of lines from a poem by a well known hindi poet, Ramdhari Singh Dinkar. I am no poet for one,neither anyone with a great literary sense nor do I have much space at the top to understand as to what most people narrate in the form of prose. But when my colleague, Dr.Rajeshwary, narrated these lines during one of our "discussions", it just made so much sense in my life as well as that of India.
Lets start about India.I think in the name of resilience, we have been just trying to avoid facing these terrorist outfits which has made us look weak and meek in the international arena. All it takes to avoid any noise from our quarter is to send an emissary from the powerhouse of the world (and that's USA as we all know) and we sit tight in the corner thinking we have done enough and then its time for us to keep silent and lie still waiting to be shaken up from the slumber by another attack on not just the citizens but our pride as a nation.And that's how we have come to be taken as a QUIET nation still dwelling on the pride of being non-violent. I think its time to redefine this term NON-VIOLENCE. We have to vehemently make the world aware that NON VIOLENCE does not mean NO VIOLENCE . We need to instill the fear of our toughness too and not just get into a jumble of words when attacked.
I guess its the same in our lives to as individuals.Sometimes we just find people taking advantage of us and our manners making it our weakness rather than a virtue. We all need to realise that its not an ideal world and so there are times we need to assert our rights and say it loud when its wrong because its not just doing the wrong which is not right but not doing the right is also wrong.
When the two great mythologies,the Mahabharata and Ramayana, preach about good prevailing over evil even if it requires a war to get that result, isn't it time for us to once again to prove that its time for the good to prevail over the evil by taking the right measures??

Where is world heading to?????

Today is different and so will be everyday from now on. I just woke up in the morning and went through the regular routine of picking up the paper from the balcony expecting to see the now routine headlines of sensex crashing and people being served pink slips in a few more sectors. But the sleep just vanished when I saw the headlines stating "WAR ON MUMBAI". I had slept a bit early and missed the main news of terrorist strike on the financial hub of India.
Just a bunch of 25 teenagers have created havoc and mayhem in the lives of all Indians. I don't know what is acheived by all this. Just more hatred, blodbath, sorrow and tears. Who gains???? The lives of these youth will be lost sooner or later, there are hundreds of families left in despair and the word "peace" has vanished from the lives of everyone in this country and fear looms large everywhere. Is this what we are born for? Isn't it more worthwhile to be born as an innocent animal who carries no hatred or weapons and the only thought on its mind is to get its share of food so that it can sleep in peace.
I guess the world was better in the stone ages....... at least, there was less hatred and fear then!
All that I can do for the innocents who perished in the last 2 days is pray that their souls rest in peace and their families get the courage to live through this unfortunate tragedy.

Large Hearted Americans!

I was just reading the other day in the papers about the First Black President-elect.... in fact there was hardly anything else positive in the papers which I can say was worth reading. To be very truthful, we need to hand it over to the Americans for their support to this lean man in whom they have put their trust. People might say a thousand things about the racial difference and ill treatment in the west but this election definitely makes one thing clear which we badly lack - Americans give the person a chance if he/she has the potential. Not that it is a bed of roses for anyone, anywhere and neither should it be that way. But then the thumping majority definitely proves that Americans are more secular than us.
Except Sonia Gandhi, I really can't think of any other foreigner who has been elected to the Parliament of independent India and the world knows the opposition that she faces being the odd one out (Well,well, I am not a Congress supporter in anyway! In fact I strongly believe that all parties take the country to the dogs, its just the speed at which they do is different :)). But there is a long of politicians from other races who have been having their say in the American senate.I guess its one of the reasons which puts us in the developing nation category and not in the developed one as yet. We just don't let the person with the ability to make a difference to raise his head.
Why talk of others, lets just analyse ourselves. How many of us look at the new colleagues entering our workplace as someone capable of doing some good to the organisation. He/she is always a threat and we dig to find the mistakes rather than let the person settle and get comfortable with us . Have I said anything wrong?
I guess there lies our fault. We, Indians, have a pseudo-superiority and when we can't really achieve what someone else has, we either become their psycophants or oppose them with "religion and culture" as our shields.And if the person who has done something exclusive has even a remote connection with India, we don't stop at anything to establish the connection irrespective of whether that person has any knowledge of where India is, forget the patriotism part.I don't say US is perfect..... but actually I am, for once, just trying not to find their fault but trying to learn why they excel in a lot of things. What do you say?

Aadhar (support).......for the needy!

Hi all! This time I am not writing my thoughts but just wanting to spread a nice cause that my "FPG" (friend, philosopher and guide) has been doing for the last 10 years. She is Dr.Rajeshwary Kulkarni - an eye surgeon and a victim of a cruel disease called cancer which in medical terms was Non-Hodgkin's lymphoma. Its normal for a human to fall prey to the problem and get dejected but what is commendable is that Dr.Rajeshwary not only had the will to come out of it unscathed but also drew inspiration from the experience to start a charitable trust called - AADHAR (meaning support in hindi). The trust, for the last 10 years, has been helping small children suffering from cancer with funds to bear the exhorbitant cost of the cancer treatment and with the help of its volunteers lending a helping hand in the form of counseling to cancer patients of all ages. Its a totally non profit organisation and the donations to this fund are tax free in India.
Well, readers, the least that we can do is visit her blog (www.aadharforcancer.blogspot.com) and help pass on the message that this wonderful lady started 10 years ago and continues doing the same untiringly.God bless Aadhar!

Delhi........ no more the same!

The weather in Delhi is getting chillier by the day and the warmth of the sun is more craved for and appreciated now. I hope the cooler temperature also cools down the temperature of the people residing in the capital who are always on the edge. I have seen Delhi change in front of my eyes and this has not been only with respect to the development of the city with the metro and flyovers pouring in but also the behaviour of the people.
In my last stay here which was almost 6 years ago, this city was really a different place. Not just was it less crowded, it was also more tolerant. People were more friendly and life here seemed more livable.I guess time and times have both taken their toll on this city. In fact, its just the reflection of the state that we are in........ financially, socially and mentally!
I just hope that the people and the times iron out the pain and stress........a wish I guess is too much to fathom for the capital!

Harry Potter's INDIAN connection..????

Its been raining cats and dogs in Delhi for the last two days and well the drop in the temperature has not just brought some relief to the weather but has also brought some smile on my face. I really don't know what is it that I am upbeat about but I guess its just one of those days when you feel positive and glad to be where you are and what you are doing.
I am not a really a bookworm but somehow I managed to gather courage to read the first book of the Harry Potter series (the truth is that I really never understood the movie and was feeling sort of ashamed that I wasn't able to follow something which kids one fourth my age really are going ga-ga about! And so it was high time I matched up to them!! ). I have just gone through the first few chapters of it and I must say that the author has some really wild and interesting imagination.... but I don't know how many have found some similarity between the events in the life of Harry Potter and our own Lord Krishna.
The fact that,this boy was hated by a powerful and evil guy and inspite of his attempts to kill baby Harry, the baby survives and is left at the doorstep where he can be taken care of, is very close to what the mythologies describe about the life of Krishna. I don't know if that was in anyway an inspiration for J.K.Rowling but definitely the popularity of the book and the movie shows that possibly Krishna lives in the imagination of not just Indians but also the other races and it is a character which all love to believe and identify with!

Hi I am back!

Hello! I am back after a long break and its been a tremendous change not just in terms of the place but also the lifestyle, work and rather every aspect of my life. I guess thats the way life is in a big city.... specially when you are in the capital of the country. Gone are the days when I used to wake up and lazily carry the paper in my lap and go through the headlines bothering least about what my next activity should be. Now the alarm is almost like a war cry for me to get ready for the fight called LIFE . And after seeing the regularity with which the terror has creeped into our lives, I guess no one is really very confident of what he or she is going to encounter on leaving the doorstep. And after the blasts that rocked this city once again, despite all the odds that we may come across in our lives at various points in time, we all need to just thank that WE ARE ALIVE and well at the end of the day ..............and maybe thats the only sign that we have probably done some good act during that day for which we have been saved and survived another day in this BIG BAD WORLD!